Do you remember Senior Chief Tommy Valentine? Navy SEAL veteran of multiple tours in Afghanistan and Iraq? Got a workout named after him. Earned the Silver Star, and Bronze Star (twice).
Died in the line of duty in a HALO mishap working up for his tenth combat deployment since 9/11. Left behind a wife, a son, a daughter. The respect of those he served with:
“Senior Chief Valentine was one of the finest SEALs I have ever known,” Capt. Scott Moore, commander, Naval Special Warfare Development group, said in a news release. “He served our country with valor during multiple tours to Afghanistan and Iraq.
“A role model, mentor and incredible leader, Tom epitomized what we as SEALs strive for, a complete commitment to excellence.”
That’s CAPT Scott Moore, CO of DEVGRU. A man who’s known a few SEALs, and not much given to hyperbole if I’m any judge. From a distance.
Not the first of his team to go down.
Tragically, he had just lost “Badger” in late December,just before the squadron returned. And tragically, again, we just lost three operators in the last month, two of whom stood shoulder to shoulder with us when we buried Tom on 28 February at Arlington and became surrogate fathers to my grand children.
Those are the words of David Kalassay, an occasional reader who draws our attention to an event in the honor of Senior Chief Valentine:
On 8 Nov 08 on board NAS Oceana:
The Inaugural “Tommy V” Challenge, to benefit the Naval Special Warfare Foundation.
A Golf Tournament and Trap and Skeet event for non-golfers, will raise funds to support those families of SEALs and SWCC’s who have made the ultimate sacrifice.
These aren’t guys – guys like me – who strike from the air with relative impunity. They don’t hang back in the rear with the gear. They don’t move in battalion force, there is no “safety in numbers”, the objective odds are not on their side. They train arduously in order to go back – again, and again, and again – to take the fight right up to a brutal, merciless enemy. Close in, face to face. Trusting to themselves, and their teammates and a training regime that is so rigorous that men who have faced the wolf ten times can still lose their lives preparing for the fight.
They leave behind holes in the line that other brave men will eventually fill, however imperfectly. They also leave behind howling voids in the lives of their families that no one will ever be able to step into, that no one will ever be able to entirely fill. The wives that loaned them to us fearfully, the children who will ever only know their fathers by the honor that we do them.
The Navy Special Warfare Foundation – certified by the Independent Charities of America as a “Best Charity in America” – is giving us that opportunity. On November 8, 2008. On board Naval Air Station Oceana, Virginia. It’s Navy for Navy, with MWR all in, and the hopes of at least covering the administrative costs so that something comes back to the foundation, and the families.
They’re looking for individual and corporate donations. Tax exempt, of course. A chance to tell the family of Senior Chief Valentine, and the families of too many heroes like him, how much we value what they’ve done for us.
How much should you give?
I don’t know. Think about how much he had in life, and how he gave it all. Think about what he left behind, and how he’ll be remembered.
Times are hard all the way around, I know. Still. Do what you can.
He did all that he could.
“At what level are you willing to participate?”
“All In. All the Time”SOCS Thomas J. Valentine
-Inbrief talking point for new squadron personnel.
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[...] Neptunus Lex points to one of them. [...]
I just gave, in Memory of my father, CPO Fay (Fred) D. Hargrove. He was on USS Tangier at Pearl Harbor, later on the USS Astoria when she went down at Savo Island. He was later radio operator on long range seaplanes, PBM’s.
Thanks for the oportunity Lex.
I give the the Special Operations Warrior Foundation. They provide educations to the children of Special Forces killed in the line of duty. It is another good charity.
David and Linda
Your family has always been very good to me in supporting my Rich Earth™ business. I am so proud to have known Tom and the courageous sacrifices of Tom and all the Navy Seals. My brother-in-law, William Branum is also a Navy Seal in Norfolk. I will be calling you to discuss a contribution. Thank you for the opportunity to participate in this cause.
“All in. All the time”
Kindest regards,
Liz
Nothing to spare, right now, but I am just now spilling a libation for him. Walked outdoors, looked up, poured on ground.
Lookin at those scarey eyeballs of his looking out of that picture at me, you betcha I did so!
I mean, those scarey eyeballs would scare a normal dull person, let alone a person of borderline autitude like Yours Truly!
Those eyes aren’t scary. Those eyes aren’t even merely confident. Those eyes are of a man completely convinced.
I expect they’d only be scary if they’re looking at you and you’re not on his side.
I do thank God we have such men in our country. Sort of makes it easier to sleep at night, knowing the nation hasn’t all turned to milksops and milquetoasts.
– Max
Those eyes are not scary, they are the eyes of the kindest most morally decent man I ever knew. I see the reflection of Tom in his daughter’s eyes and in the hearts and memories of all of us who miss him so terribly. I can’t be at the golf/skeet weekend, but will be there in spirit. Peace.
Thanks to all of you for your support of our brave son!!
Man,death is a true basher of connections!But thats life,and we must not fear it either.