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	<description>The unbearable lightness of Lex. Enjoy!</description>
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		<title>By: Rich</title>
		<link>http://www.neptunuslex.com/2010/07/23/friday-open-thread/comment-page-2/#comment-574388</link>
		<dc:creator>Rich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 15:54:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks so much for sharing your gift with us and for providing
a place to meet and enjoy it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much for sharing your gift with us and for providing<br />
a place to meet and enjoy it.</p>
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		<title>By: Grandpa Bluewater</title>
		<link>http://www.neptunuslex.com/2010/07/23/friday-open-thread/comment-page-2/#comment-572821</link>
		<dc:creator>Grandpa Bluewater</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 11:33:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lex:

Put up an article a week, every Sunday.

We will all be there for it.

Pet projects need to be leash trained.

Best wishes/ Gramps.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lex:</p>
<p>Put up an article a week, every Sunday.</p>
<p>We will all be there for it.</p>
<p>Pet projects need to be leash trained.</p>
<p>Best wishes/ Gramps.</p>
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		<title>By: OldT6Flyer</title>
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		<dc:creator>OldT6Flyer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 23:46:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Its not for me to pass judgement as to whether it has made a difference or been worth it for you.  That I can imagine is a hard call and one I struggle wtih in my life when I refelct on the choices I&#039;ve made the mistakes so blaringly obvious in hindsight.

But I can say it has been worth it to me - which is easy to say as I just consumed you produced.  I also think it made a difference for the Republic by providing - at least to this small segment who call themselves regulars - a chance to reflect and vent on why we love this country and honor those like you who have served her well.  That ain&#039;t nothin.

Whatever you decide I hope to meet you someday for real.  Hopefully it will involve flight in an airpolane with a tailwheel in an attitude no aligned with the horizon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its not for me to pass judgement as to whether it has made a difference or been worth it for you.  That I can imagine is a hard call and one I struggle wtih in my life when I refelct on the choices I&#8217;ve made the mistakes so blaringly obvious in hindsight.</p>
<p>But I can say it has been worth it to me &#8211; which is easy to say as I just consumed you produced.  I also think it made a difference for the Republic by providing &#8211; at least to this small segment who call themselves regulars &#8211; a chance to reflect and vent on why we love this country and honor those like you who have served her well.  That ain&#8217;t nothin.</p>
<p>Whatever you decide I hope to meet you someday for real.  Hopefully it will involve flight in an airpolane with a tailwheel in an attitude no aligned with the horizon.</p>
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		<title>By: Spencer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Spencer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 23:31:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Five sentences certainly does not do the ordeal my sister went through or what my family endured justice.  Nor should anyone conclude as I seem to suggest the situation is hopeless.  A lot addicts recover and my sister nearly did.  She needed a change of scenery as her peers, particularly her enabling boyfriend, were a big part of her relapses.  Intervention and support go a long, long way in bringing them out of the rain.  Particularly when they are ready.  The wolf is always at the door for them.    

The story starts when she was about 13 and a horse jumped on her causing a double compound fracture.  It took a day to pack her out of the rural area she was in just to meet the ambulance by the road.  From there she had a couple of surgeries and was given a lot of pain meds.  Addiction dots my family tree in a few places and add in some self esteem issues and you get the picture.  Once marijuana and the rest of it came along she, unlike me, had no fear of it.  In the end it was a car accident that did her in.  No one else was seriously hurt except her enabler.  She just made poor decisions.   

I have about 4 or 5 cousins and uncles that have survived addiction.  They also tried to intervene as best they could.  A lot of support and a lot of love go a long, long way to helping them get better.  I certainly suggest breaking up the peer group as well as getting them involved in things.  I notice that a lot of addicts that quit the addictions that nearly kill them tend to adopt new ones.  Sometimes its smoking.  Sometimes its exercising.  They tend to be extreme about things.  Another observation is that they use to escape.  Whatever age they started using it is probably a reflection of what their age actually is.  They might be 20 by age but only 15 by maturity because they checked out.  They lack maturity and the ability to cope in the most basic situations but over time it gets better.  

I wish you the best of luck.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Five sentences certainly does not do the ordeal my sister went through or what my family endured justice.  Nor should anyone conclude as I seem to suggest the situation is hopeless.  A lot addicts recover and my sister nearly did.  She needed a change of scenery as her peers, particularly her enabling boyfriend, were a big part of her relapses.  Intervention and support go a long, long way in bringing them out of the rain.  Particularly when they are ready.  The wolf is always at the door for them.    </p>
<p>The story starts when she was about 13 and a horse jumped on her causing a double compound fracture.  It took a day to pack her out of the rural area she was in just to meet the ambulance by the road.  From there she had a couple of surgeries and was given a lot of pain meds.  Addiction dots my family tree in a few places and add in some self esteem issues and you get the picture.  Once marijuana and the rest of it came along she, unlike me, had no fear of it.  In the end it was a car accident that did her in.  No one else was seriously hurt except her enabler.  She just made poor decisions.   </p>
<p>I have about 4 or 5 cousins and uncles that have survived addiction.  They also tried to intervene as best they could.  A lot of support and a lot of love go a long, long way to helping them get better.  I certainly suggest breaking up the peer group as well as getting them involved in things.  I notice that a lot of addicts that quit the addictions that nearly kill them tend to adopt new ones.  Sometimes its smoking.  Sometimes its exercising.  They tend to be extreme about things.  Another observation is that they use to escape.  Whatever age they started using it is probably a reflection of what their age actually is.  They might be 20 by age but only 15 by maturity because they checked out.  They lack maturity and the ability to cope in the most basic situations but over time it gets better.  </p>
<p>I wish you the best of luck.</p>
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		<title>By: byrdman</title>
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		<dc:creator>byrdman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 16:11:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Did any of this make a difference?
I say yes and thank you, whatever may come.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did any of this make a difference?<br />
I say yes and thank you, whatever may come.</p>
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		<title>By: Spencer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Spencer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 04:06:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lex you are without a doubt one of the most eloquent writers on the internet that I have ever had the pleasure of reading.  You also run a very clean site.  Two things not easy to find on the internet.  

For me the Sea Stories, particularly Rhythms hooked me.  I agree the politics of it all are depressing but I still find myself amused by your angle on some of the stories as well as the stuff that comes out in the comments.  I&#039;ll miss the site for sure if you go in a different direction.   Or maybe I will not.  

As for the addiction I wish you the best.  The disease claimed my sister, the youngest, at a tender age.  Dont be too hard on yourself over your parenthood.  Some kids just make dangerous choices and no matter how much we parents try to help its not good enough.  Lord knows my parents tried to help her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lex you are without a doubt one of the most eloquent writers on the internet that I have ever had the pleasure of reading.  You also run a very clean site.  Two things not easy to find on the internet.  </p>
<p>For me the Sea Stories, particularly Rhythms hooked me.  I agree the politics of it all are depressing but I still find myself amused by your angle on some of the stories as well as the stuff that comes out in the comments.  I&#8217;ll miss the site for sure if you go in a different direction.   Or maybe I will not.  </p>
<p>As for the addiction I wish you the best.  The disease claimed my sister, the youngest, at a tender age.  Dont be too hard on yourself over your parenthood.  Some kids just make dangerous choices and no matter how much we parents try to help its not good enough.  Lord knows my parents tried to help her.</p>
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