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Same as it Ever Was

I wrote this a few weeks ago and posted it at my place.   Since it actually has something to do with the military, and Lex is in Sick Bay for the nonce, I thought I would post it here too.

Deployments are a part of military life, and Navy life in particular. My father flew the P-3 Orion, land-based patrol aircraft. When he was in a flying billet, he was deployed pretty much half of the time. 6 months home, 6 months away, in a never-ending rotation. It was only during a “shore duty” command that he was home more often than that.

At the time, the Army and Air Force were different. Although they didn’t deploy per se, those families tended to move a lot more often, and lived in way more exotic places (back then) like Korea and Germany. I knew Air Force brats that moved pretty much every 18 to 24 months for years on end.

Me, I liked the Navy way better. Sure it sucked dad being gone, but abode stability was a small price to pay for having a dad with the coolest job in the world short of astronaut or secret agent. And those involve significantly more travel, from what I hear.

In any case, I was recently going through some old pictures that my parents converted from slides (remember them?) into the much more robust format of the digital image, and I came across this one:
1971-06-004

Patuxent River Naval Air Station, July 1971. VP-49 is leaving for a deployment to Keflavik Iceland, a base where I would serve (if ever so briefly) some 30-odd years later.

The young LT walking across the ramp is my father, and the woman holding the infant is my mother.  The little girl is my sister, and I’m the infant (in case you hadn’t gotten that far). This scene is replayed across the Navy every day of the year. Always has been, always will be. Sailors walk away from their families to an airplane, ship or sub, or even a commercial airliner for folks that do what I do.

As a kid, what did I know? It was a part of life. Didn’t all dads do that? I can’t recall ever thinking, “gosh, it sucks that my daddy has to do that”. I thought they all did.

I don’t think it was until I had to leave my own daughter that I understood what it must have been even remotely like. And his deployments were pre email and international phone calls for less than $10 per minute. We got letters, most of which I have kept. Yes dad, I’m being a good boy for mommy and I have cleaned my room.

Have you ever watched one of those History Channel-esque documentaries on the military? And how they have the obligatory scene of the return from the deployment? Yeah, still kinda chokes me up.

But you know what? It makes me truly appreciate my family. My wife, my loving parents, and my absolutely perfect daughter.

But do you know what I thought was really interesting about this picture?

See that number on the tail? 156529?

That plane is still flying. Converted to an EP-3 and assigned to VQ-2, according to the latest information.

That means that sometime in the next 12 months or so, there will probably be another young LT walking on a ramp, towards that same plane, with his wife, daughter and infant son waiving goodbye.

Comments

Comment from Ron Snyder
Time: June 5, 2009, 12:40 pm

Thanks for sharing the memories. Excellent post.

I was only in the AF for four years, but the continuous TDY’s were a very big reason that I did not stay in. Both they that go and they that stay make a huge sacrifice, and endure burdens, that far too few people appreciate.

Regards,

Ron

Comment from Idaho Joe
Time: June 5, 2009, 1:35 pm

Your post makes me think of my life right now, having to slowly let my daughter go off and be her own woman/sailor. It aint easy, but it’s important.

Comment from MissBirdlegs in AL
Time: June 5, 2009, 1:49 pm

Loved this, Jeopardy – thanks!

Comment from virgil xenophon
Time: June 6, 2009, 8:22 am

God that picture of you as an infant makes me feel old! At that very moment that picture was taken I was a 27-yr old Captain in the USAF
stationed in the UK at RAF Woodbridge, 78th TFS, 81st TFW. Seems like only yesterday….and yet it wasn’t. Now I’m well into geezer-hood headed toward fossil status. Time flies when you’re havin’ fun…..they say.

Comment from Mitch
Time: May 13, 2010, 11:12 am

I flew 156529 three times during my Naval career. Twice as a student learning to fly the P-3 in VP-30, and once again 4 years later as an instructor in VP-30.

Thanks for posting this!
Cheers,
Mitch

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